Why You're Not Doing The Work

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Heartbreak Podcast - Why You're Not Doing The Work

I recently finished reading Wealth Warrior by Steve Chandler, and it inspired the topic of today’s episode; why you’re not doing the work. As I share in each episode, the thought model I use with my clients is the same that my coach uses with me: your thoughts create feelings, that drive actions, that yield you results. In Steve Chandler’s book, he takes a slightly different approach. For his clients are feeling stuck, he tells them to pick something, and go all in. In this episode, I explore this idea a bit more, and how it compliments the thought model I use in my coaching, as well as why you aren’t doing the work, and what it is that’s holding you back from the results you truly desire. 

Topics in this episode

• The 3 reasons you aren’t doing the work

  • You’re not ready

  • You don’t believe it works

  • You are scared of success

• When you’re suffering, and struggling, and in pain, you’re probably not motivated to do the work. 

• What makes me the coach I am today

• Why I always said yes

• Eating a shit sandwich

• My daily hour I spend with my future self 

Resources

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/clairetheheartbreakcoach/

• Articles on Poosh.com: https://poosh.com/author/claire-byrne/

• Heartbreak in Your Ideal Relationship: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2020/6/14/heartbreak-in-your-ideal-relationship

• Let’s Talk About Vulnerability: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2020/8/3/lets-talk-about-vulnerability

• My Heartbreak Story: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2019/4/1/my-heartbreak-story

•  When the Work Isn’t Working: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2020/7/26/when-the-work-isnt-working

• Elizabeth Gilbert, Big Magic: https://www.amazon.com/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond/dp/1594634726/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=big+magic&qid=1597021656&sr=8-2

• Steve Chandler, Wealth Warrior: https://www.amazon.com/Wealth-Warrior-Personal-Prosperity-Revolution/dp/1600250408/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=the+wealth+warrior&qid=1597021718&sr=8-2

• Martha Beck: https://marthabeck.com/

• Brooke Castillo, Self Coaching 101: https://www.amazon.com/Self-Coaching-101-Brooke-Castillo/dp/0977853993

• Heartbreak for Black Lives: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2020/6/8/heartbreak-for-black-lives

• EFT Practitioner, Lena George: https://www.unplug.com/teachers-new/lena-george

• Heart-Healing Crystals with Courtney Abbiati, of The Urban and The Mystic: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2019/9/30/heart-healing-crystals-with-courtney-abbiati

PLEASE NOTE: Claire refers to her exes and the listener’s ex as a “he,” based on her own personal experience as a heterosexual female, but this work can be applied to ANYONE going through heartbreak. ALL genders and sexual orientations are encouraged to listen and apply Claire’s tools into their own lives!

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