Stop Polling Your Audience

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Have you ever shared someone’s online dating profile to a friend, or multiple friends, and asked for their feedback? This is something a lot, if not all of us, do. I was recently working with a client on why she should stop polling her audience and that is what inspired this topic that I love. For years, I was polling the audience, until I realized that it never served me. Now that I am no longer doing that, and trusting myself, I have clarity in all areas of my life, and you can totally have that too. You have to be willing to show up and think and act differently, and I promise you will have the results you are seeking. 

Topics in this episode

• My rock bottom heartbreak:
  https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2019/4/1/my-heartbreak-story

• Booke Castillo’s thought model: your thoughts create your results 

• Episode 1, All I Want Is For Him To Come Back: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2019/3/4/all-i-want-is-for-him-to-come-back

• The difference between bouncing things off your friends because you love them, and taking what they say to heart. 

• Doing self-coaching 

• At the end of the day, how do you want to show up differently in your dating life?

• Look for past evidence that you know what you’re doing in your dating life 

• If you are looking for a place to start, start managing your mind with this thought model 

• Having a difficult conversation with a friend if her feedback isn’t serving you

PLEASE NOTE: Claire refers to her exes and the listener’s ex as a “he,” based on her own personal experience as a heterosexual female, but this work can be applied to ANYONE going through heartbreak. ALL genders and sexual orientations are encouraged to listen and apply Claire’s tools into their own lives!

Editing and show notes by Roth Media