If I Don't Find Him, I'll Be Miserable
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Heartbreak Podcast - If I Don't Find Him, I'll Be Miserable
If you are listening to this podcast, I’ll bet you have had this thought that if you don’t find him, your ideal person, your life will be miserable. This is a belief that I carried for a very long time, and is something I hear often from my clients. Even if they don’t say it outright, I know that some of my clients believe that can’t be truly happy until their person shows up. My loves, I want you to know that your person is an added bonus, but they can’t fill the void. Only you are responsible for healing your heart and loving the fuck out of you. Take a look at your thoughts that are keeping you from finding him, clean up those thoughts, and deliberately love the fuck out of you. Not only is it possible to love your singledom, but it’s critical to love being single while still calling love in.
In my program, these are the kinds of thoughts that we look at and really dig deep to investigate and I take my clients through the process of how to do that, how to create closure, and how to be ok if your ideal person isn’t here now. If you want to learn more about how to create the results of healing your heart, falling in love with you, and finding someone better, then I invite you to check out my 60-video course, Stop Wanting Him Back and Find Someone Better, where I take you step-by-step through the process. And if you are ready to really dive in and take your healing to the next level, I also have a one-year group coaching program, by the same name. To learn more and apply, go to my website, https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/
Topics In This Episode
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Where my clients get tripped up in the “fall in love with you” stage of my process
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Getting closure on your past relationships
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Healing the lack of love we have for ourselves
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It’s not about the how and the action of dating yourself, it’s about your mind
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If you aren’t enjoying being single, then you won’t be able to go through the process of falling in love with you
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How my clients know that the work is working
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Getting clear on the negotiables and the nonnegotiables
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PLEASE NOTE: Claire refers to her exes and the listener’s ex as a “he,” based on her own personal experience as a heterosexual female, but this work can be applied to ANYONE going through heartbreak. ALL genders and sexual orientations are encouraged to listen and apply Claire’s tools into their own lives!
Editing and show notes by Roth Media
