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You’ve pretty much got it all:


A job you’re proud of and worked your ass off for, a home you love, a pretty balanced, healthy lifestyle (always leaving room to indulge of course) the BEST friends a girl could ask for, and perhaps certain family members drive you crazy, but you wouldn’t trade them for the world.

 

But there’s this onnnne area you juuust can’t seem to get a grasp on:


YOUR LOVE-LIFE.

You’re sick of the dwelling, longing, clinging, aching, and obsessing over one too many Mr. Wrongs.

Your brain KNOWS these guys are bad news, but you just can’t seem to stop attracting them, despite how differently you think you’re showing up, leading you to sometimes entertain the possibility of being alone forever.
 

After all, when you’re NOT in partnership with some man-child, your life tends to be a little more easeful and a little less dramatic.


You’ve done therapy and it was great, but you feel the need for something “more,” and you’re not really sure what that looks like…

 

All you know is that your life would be so SO much better, sharing it with not just anyone but... THE ONE. 

The one who makes you weak in the knees, makes you pee your pants dying laughing, who showers you with affection, and is loyal, committed, EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE and never gives you a shadow of a doubt that you are his everything, and he is yours.

 

(Not in a codependent-y kinda way!)

Well. You’ve come to the right place.

Introducing my 6 month

VIP 1:1 coaching program

Nuts & Bolts:

Zoom Sessions
We’ll meet 22 times for 45-minute sessions to be completed within 26 weeks.

Text Support
I also offer on-call text support during PST business hours. (If you’re overseas, we’ll figure out an arrangement that works for us both)

Course Access
You'll receive lifetime-access to my 75 video course, Stop Wanting Him Back & Find Someone Better.

I'm Claire Conlan

AKA, Claire the Heartbreak Coach, and it took me years of tireless efforts to heal my most debilitating heartbreak, find the love of my life, and then turned both into simple processes that have now helped hundreds of women stop wanting Mr. Wrong back and find someone better!

I was dubbed the resident Heartbreak Coach for Kourtney Kardashian’s lifestyle site, POOSH, where I have written over 60 articles on heartbreak, dating and relationships. Other publications I've written for include Men’s Health, Brit + Co, & Medium. I was also featured in Ireland's national newspaper, The Irish Independent, and Cosmopolitan UK.

I was a recurring guest on Bachelor Nation/DWTS winner, Kaitlyn Bristowe's Off The Vine podcast, and guested on Drybar Founder Alli Webb's Raising the Bar, The Liz Moody Podcast, Arielle Lorre's Well, and Bachelor Nation's Ashley Haibon's I Don't Get It. Additionally, I was interviewed by The View's Sara Haines on her IG live series.

You can check out my own podcast, Stop Wanting Him Back & Find Someone Better, available on all major platforms.

I'm Claire Conlan

AKA, Claire the Heartbreak Coach, and it took me years of tireless efforts to heal my most debilitating heartbreak, find the love of my life, and then turned both into simple processes that have now helped hundreds of women stop wanting Mr. Wrong back and find someone better!

I was dubbed the resident Heartbreak Coach for Kourtney Kardashian’s lifestyle site, POOSH, where I have written over 60 articles on heartbreak, dating and relationships. Other publications I've written for include Men’s Health, Brit + Co, & Medium. I was also featured in Ireland's national newspaper, The Irish Independent, as well as Cosmopolitan UK.

I have also been a recurring guest on Bachelor Nation/DWTS winner, Kaitlyn Bristowe's Off The Vine podcast, and guested on Drybar Founder Alli Webb's Raising the Bar, The Liz Moody Podcast, and Bachelor Nation's Ashley Haibon's I Don't Get It. I was also interviewed by The View's Sara Haines on her IG live series.

Finally, you can check out my own podcast, Stop Wanting Him Back & Find Someone Better on all major platforms.

What does 6 Months Of Working Together Look Like?

Every 1:1 coaching journey is different!

You may come to me thinking that you're ready for love, but after a couple of sessions I might ask you to hit pause on dating and clean up some blindspots about your relationship with men (insert whatever gender pronoun applies to you), your general crappy thoughts on dating, or perhaps your relationship with yourself.

Here's the formal/technical trajectory of what working on your love-life with me looks like:

CUT CONTACT

 

LET YOUR HEART BREAK

 

GET CLOSURE

 

FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU 

FIND SOMEONE BETTER

 

 I tend to slow my clients down if they want to jump from healing heartbreak to finding love because I'm a huge proponent of cleaning up your relationship with yourself after you've endured a significant heartbreak.

 

This "fall in love with you" work will be different for everyone.

 

For me personally, it entailed shedding toxic friendships, building a business I was passionate about (yes this one!), healing my relationship with my body, as well as my relationship with alcohol.

 

Our zoom sessions could focus on mindset work, breathwork, nervous system balancing work, discussing action steps and how you're going to implement them, and/or body work, based off of what YOU are bringing to the table.

 

Once you're good and ready to date, we will intentionally swipe on the apps together during our sessions, so that I can help you enjoy the process and drown out the obvious noise dating apps bring up for a majority of people.

 

There is no specific agenda on my end, session to session.

  Yes, there is an end goal of healing your heartbreak and/or finding love, but an integral part of the work is me meeting you where you're at every time we meet, which doesn't mean you'll coast through the sessions but instead of forcing you to go on a dating app that puts you into a complete spiral, we're going to slow down and look intimately at the spiral and get to the root of it.

  Finally, as you already know, life loves to throw curveballs in the midst of our big plans, which is why I love this 6-month commitment. 

 

Our work isn't just about healing your heart and/or finding love.

 

It's about how you navigate the disruptions, inconveniences, and surprises along the way-- job loss, a sick family member, work overwhelm, or a difficult baby daddy who won't adhere to custody arrangements... to name a few.

April G.

 

Claire is THE expert on heartbreak, and I firmly believe there is no one better. Anyone who's heartbroken or is needing help manifesting her ideal relationship, look no further. Despite some tough moments I had coming to grips with a true awareness of myself, I always knew I was in the right hands with Claire.

 

Claire's coaching is priceless. She’s tough, but HILARIOUS, and helped me fall more in love with myself, which in turn, helped me find the best and healthiest relationship I have ever been in.

 

My results—including my HUSBAND, speak for themselves!"

Anonymous

Simply put, Claire taught me how to trust myself again. With grace and compassion, she walked with me through the deepest heartache and disappointment of my life, while holding a mirror to the parts of me that needed love (sometimes tough love!). Together we built a version of myself that I’d never seen before – one who knew what she wanted in life AND started to actually believe that she could get it.

 

I went from healing my heart in 2021, to living my brightest, fullest life in 2022, to falling in love with my person, my now fiancé, in 2023. It’s a story I never thought I’d get to write for myself, and I owe so much of it to Claire’s love and dedication as a coach, and the space she held for me to learn to trust myself. I am stronger, happier, and more fulfilled because of Claire’s work. She is a true gem.

Alicia M.

Claire's coaching provided me with two essential pieces that led to my Mr. Right.  First, she gave me a clear dating process that stopped me from looking at what WASN’T working with men or the apps. Second, she held up the mirror to show me some ugly truths I didn’t want to see including all the crumbs I was settling for. It took a lot of consistency on my part and tough love on Claire’s part, to help me finally break my scarcity mindset with men. 

Now, I’ve met a man who is everything I want and more. Two years later and I’m madly in love and deeply proud of my own growth!  I’ve loved loved loved working with Claire — it’s changed my life.

Is This The Right Fit For You?

My expectation for my VIP 1:1 clients is that you've done some work on yourself already.

 

You know that the change starts with you, but perhaps feel stumped on what to focus on and are experiencing some resistance staying consistent with implementing new habits with regards to your dating life.

 

I also want you to be ready to put in time IN BETWEEN our sessions to do the work I ask you to do.

 

At least 20 mins a day, 5 days a week.

 

This is also a significant financial investment (a five-figure investment with multiple payment plan options).

 

I'm looking for people who are really committed to making a massive change to their relationships with romantic relationships, who ready to claim what they MOST want and love!

 

My methods are tested with massive client success... I'm invited to three client's weddings in 2025!

Liz W.

Claire has helped me to heal the greatest heartbreak of my life with practical tools that I now use every day. With a mix of pure grace, effervescent humor, and unparalleled intuition, Claire breaks through the bullshit — mine and others — to help me discover what I need to move forward. Not only has my 'homework' from our sessions helped me to heal past traumas, it has led me to major breakthroughs in my career, relationships, and well-being. I've already sent my nearest and dearest loved ones her way, and I will continue to do so! I'm so blessed to have Claire as a life coach. If you're ready to invest in real, meaningful, powerful change, call her — right now!

Christina R.

Claire is a tough coach and has a way to balance the tough-love approach without judgement. She’ll push you into uncomfortable spaces, but stand right beside you through all of the vulnerability and discomfort in your growth. Through my work with Claire, I came to fully understand I had to learn the process of accepting and loving ALL parts of myself. I knew that intellectually loving myself was important, but ACTUALLY behaving in ways that were self-compassionate, forgiving, and accepting was the work for me. Near the end of my coaching journey with Claire is when I met my now boyfriend, and It’s the healthiest, most conscious relationship of my life. The difference between how I show up in this relationship versus past relationships is that I now know no matter what the future has in store for me and/or us, that I will always be ok.

Emily S.

Through working with Claire, I managed to fix a broken heart I thought I would NEVER heal AND...FIND THE MAN OF MY DREAMS! Her huge heart, empathy, and yes, some tough love I was receptive to, helped me realize I owed it to MYSELF to do better. Claire is compassionate, challenges you, and most importantly, teaches you how to love yourself. Coaching isn’t easy, but a chance to work with Claire is truly a gift and even though it's hard, we have some great laughs too!

The woman I’ve become since our work together, is one I can finally say I am proud of. I learned how to know what I deserve in my BONES, and now have a new-found confidence & independence that helped me make those hard but clear choices, as I navigated my finding-love journey under her guidance.

And I'm now just in awe of my whole life--(she also coached me on my career AND my relationship with money because it's ALL interconnected) and still pinch myself over this dream guy who is like no other man I've dated before, and am now confidently planning my future with. The work was for sure hard at times, but so worth it!

Apply to my 6 month 1:1 coaching program, to complete your almost picture-perfect life.

**Please NOTE:  I do ask that you take your time to answer the questions on the application.
I’m not looking for full-on essays, but I want to see that you’ve given us working together some deep thought and care.**

Pay In Full

$15,000

*Payment plan options available.

  • Twenty-two sessions

  • On-call text support

  • Lifetime course access
APPLY HERE

Apply to my 6 month 1:1 coaching program, to complete your almost picture-perfect life.

Pay In Full

$15,000

*Payment plan options available.

  • Twenty-two sessions

  • On-call text support

  • Lifetime course access
APPLY HERE

**Please NOTE:  I do ask that you take your time to answer the questions on the application.
I’m not looking for full-on essays, but I want to see that you’ve given us working together some deep thought and care.**

Natalia

Claire has helped me to heal the greatest heartbreak of my life with practical tools that I now use every day. With a mix of pure grace, effervescent humor, and unparalleled intuition, Claire breaks through the bullshit — mine and others — to help me discover what I need to move forward.

Not only has my 'homework' from our sessions helped me to heal past traumas, it has led me to major breakthroughs in my career, relationships, and well-being. I've already sent my nearest and dearest loved ones her way, and I will continue to do so! I'm so blessed to have Claire as a life coach.

If you're ready to invest in real, meaningful, powerful change, apply to work with her — right now!

Emily R.

After our coaching was done I told myself that, when the day comes, Claire will be in the group of people I have to reach out to before announcing my engagement on social media. With that being said…

IM ENGAGED!! AHH!

I’d say that there must be something in the air, but it’s obviously just proof that this shit works. Our coaching was an essential part in not only getting over a terrible heartbreak, but also finding new love with a great guy AND keeping it.
Long ago you asked me how I wanted to feel in a relationship with my future dream guy… well, I can finally say that I feel blissfully happy, I feel oh so very loved, and I feel so much freaking peace.

There are no words that can truly describe the impact our coaching has had, so instead I’ll say that you will always have a special place in my heart.

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Ashley K.

When my 7-year relationship ended, I was an emotional wreck. Initially, I was wishy-washy about connecting with Claire, but one day, I was so down and my gut said to reach out. I'm so glad I did because I can now proudly say, THIS PROCESS WORKS!

Not only did I completely get over my ex, but I've gained a healthier state of mind and new-found confidence that has carried over to not just my love-life, but my relationships with family and friends. I have a better understanding of my emotions and now I'm aware of strategies to advocate for myself in how I want to think, feel, and show up, in all situations. I liked Claire's professional honesty but I also felt like I was talking to a friend, which allowed me to open up in a safe, non-judgemental space.

It was overall a hard journey that wasn't always an upward trajectory, but now I'm setting standards for myself as a HAPPY single woman in her search for love!"

Emily R.

After our coaching was done I told myself that, when the day comes, Claire will be in the group of people I have to reach out to before announcing my engagement on social media. With that being said…

IM ENGAGED!! AHH!

I’d say that there must be something in the air, but it’s obviously just proof that this shit works. Our coaching was an essential part in not only getting over a terrible heartbreak, but also finding new love with a great guy AND keeping it.
Long ago you asked me how I wanted to feel in a relationship with my future dream guy… well, I can finally say that I feel blissfully happy, I feel oh so very loved, and I feel so much freaking peace.

There are no words that can truly describe the impact our coaching has had, so instead I’ll say that you will always have a special place in my heart.

Leah S.

From someone who was hesitant on our initial call and even asking how can I know this will work, I can honestly say now, that signing up with Claire was one of the best decisions I have ever made. My expectations for how far I have come in our 7 months together have been beyond surpassed.

After months of unsuccessfully trying to move past a 6 year on/off relationship on my own, I finally was able to admit that a guy I was so convinced was my dream guy, was totally unavailable and NOT for me…in just 6 sessions with Claire!

And I am now married to someone who everything I want and more and we recently had our first baby!

But my work with Claire has had a positive impact on so much more than just my dating life. She helped me see the importance in being the most authentic version of myself in ALL aspects of life, whether it be in my career or with friends and family. Multiple important people in my life have commented on the positive change they have seen in me since my work with her.

I am without a doubt the happiest I have been in my adult life and the best version of myself I can imagine.

Meg K.

Claire WILL help you do all the work you need to find your person and have the ideal relationship everyone dreams of. My work with Claire has improved literally everything in my life. I’m losing weight, killing it in my business, and my relationships are healthier than they ever have been. In particular, she has taught me to really love and cherish ME - a complete requirement for finding my person. She really pushes me - which I LOVE. She will not let your brain get away with anything that doesn’t serve you. We always laugh on our calls, and I adore her no BS approach. It’s like having a best friend who isn’t afraid to tell you every time you’re dating a complete scrub. Be prepared to WORK, and Claire will get you exactly the life and person you deserve.

Heather Z.

After being a firm believer in the work from Claire‘s podcast, and really relating to most (if not, all) episodes, I finally decided to take the leap and applied to work with her.

I had obvious hesitations due to the big investment and worried if I would create the results I longed for, (healing my heart AND finding love) but after the first time she coached me, I knew this was the right decision for me.

Basically, Claire is the BEST coach! I thoroughly enjoyed working with her, and can’t even imagine where I’d be if I didn’t apply. Not only did I heal my heart, but I attracted the highest quality guy I’ve ever dated, thanks to the Belief Man Plan Claire helped me create!

I know I will obviously still go through struggles despite the fact that I created BOTH results I came for, but now I feel prepared and equipped to take on those challenges, thanks to the tools Claire taught me.

Natalie F

Claire cuts deep and tells the truth, which was uncomfortable but worth it, as I had been in a relationship for 10 years that I was too scared to get out of. After only a MONTH of working with her, I wasn’t heartbroken anymore and felt on my way up again! Coaching with Claire is so effective. You know that she loves you and wants what is best for you, but she won’t let you indulge fearful stories that don’t serve you.

She helped me take my power back and heal not just my heartbreak, but then so much opened up in my career and dating life, which led me to meeting my husband and having our beautiful baby girl.

Emma F.

When I started working with Claire, I honestly did not think I would be in the place I’m at now, only 6 months later! I knew what I wanted my life to look like— over my ex, in love with myself, & ready to find my person— but I wasn’t sure how to get there. Claire was/is my north star and helped me see that all along, the answers were inside of me.

The way I now approach all my relationships (friendships, romantic, professional) has changed. I know I’m bringing a different, up-leveled energy to the table, which people in my life are picking up on. I also have this sense of self-love that I’ve never really experienced, but it feels so natural! I feel so sure of who I am, what I want, and now know what I deserve and won’t settle for again.

I couldn’t be happier that I decided to take the plunge and work with Claire, because I now have the tools to navigate the ebbs and flows of life as they come my way.

Rachel O.

After a cumulation of years of dating the same man over and over, I had reached a breaking point. I looked for answers OUTSIDE myself, everywhere- I googled, I asked and I searched… All I wanted and needed was guidance and some enlightenment. One day, by fluke, I opened up one of Claire’s love articles on POOSH, and my life changed. I began to listen to her podcast and felt my mind expand, episode by episode.

Claire is the voice of this female generation. It is a jungle out there in the dating world, and you need some savvy and skill to get by. You also need to learn how to love yourself.

To say that coaching with Claire transformed my life is an understatement. Claire is kind, warm, open, intuitive and sharp to the point that I think she may actually be psychic. She will teach you how to manage your thoughts, AND teach you how to plow through them in a different direction, in order to heal your heart.

I am now on a different level than when I began. What you learn from Claire about yourself in romance and the growth it brings, percolates into all areas of your life for the better. For me, it is a constant process but I had the best teacher.

All I can say to anyone curious here is - Claire is worth it!

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