THE FIND-HIM FORMULA
ACCELERATED 1:1 COACHING EXPERIENCE
What is it?
A 12-session, no-BS, accelerated one-on-one coaching experience designed to help you stop wallowing and finally take control of your love-life.
If you’re tired of being stuck in your “dating-is-hard,” story, it’s time to bust through that easy excuse and show up in a completely new way, in order to find the love you actually crave:
A relationship that offers passion, kindness, loyalty, aligned values, commitment, side-splitting laughter, monogamy and so much more.
Yes-- dating can be so much easier than you're making it!
Who is this for?
This is for smart, successful women who know they're a catch & deserve a great relationship, but are stuck playing it safe by either not putting enough skin in the dating game, OR are subconsciously sticking to the comfort of picking the all too familiar & desirable but torturous, unavailable man-child.
What you'll learn
This isn’t about getting the crumbs you've been grasping for back.
It’s about getting the WHOLE DAMN CAKE-- deep, lasting, real love with a partner who meets you at your level and adds to your life.
Here’s what you’ll walk away with:
- No More Dread - Only Direction. Transform your mindset about dating so it feels like an opportunity, not a chore.
- Clarity. Get clear on how you intellectually know you're a catch while also TREATING yourself like one! Ie: When you clock crumbs, you RUN no matter how starved you are for a taste!
- Spot the Duds Faster. Learn how to filter out guys who seem great at first, but are dead ends.
- Ditch the “Not Enough” Story. Whether you think you’re not enough or “too much,” nip these insecurities in the bud so you no longer have douchey men reflect them back to you.
- Implement Boundaries. Delete the crystal clear line and replace with “Even when your heart wants to say yes and go at a faster pace, or you’re scared he’ll bounce if you suggest that you take things a bit slowly.
- Standout Dating Profile. No more basic-bitch profiles. Yeah, I said it. You are way more interesting than "I love to travel & spend time with my family".
- Establish and Own Your Standards. Get clear on what you expect early in the dating game and stop apologizing for having high standards.
- Date Without Burnout. Balance your love life with work, friends, and holidays without losing your sanity.
Plus, You’ll Finally Leave Behind:
- The awkward responses to Aunt Sharon’s endless questions about your love life.
- The shame about being single at your age.
- The constant comparing yourself to friends who are already married.
- The soul-sucking cycle of hanging on to someone who gives you all the feels but just can’t deliver as the partner you want & deserve.
What Do the 12 Sessions Cover?
Over the 12 personalized one-on-one sessions, we’ll get to the root of what’s holding you back and create a clear path forward. Here’s what you’ll get:
- Direct Coaching with Heart. I keep it real. I’ll challenge you, call you out (with love), and bring humor, empathy, and my 20 years of dating struggles into the mix to help you succeed.
- Mindset Mastery. We’ll rewrite your inner dialogue, replacing doubts about your looks, age, the apps, men in general, as well as the city you live in, with empowering beliefs that open doors to real possibilities.
- Body Connection Work. True safety and security isn’t just about coming up with new empowering thoughts in your head— it’s also found in your body. Together we’ll work through your anxiety so you can finally trust your gut and show up authentically and self aware on every date and on every swipe!
- A Fresh Approach. No cookie-cutter advice here. You’ll walk away with a dating strategy that’s tailored to YOU, not some generic rulebook.
- An Actionable Plan. By the end, you’ll have tools, clarity, and confidence to navigate dating without hesitation.
This isn’t about overthinking or over-healing. This is about getting into action with a plan that works!
Who is Claire Conlan?
Claire Conlan (Byrne), AKA, Claire the Heartbreak Coach, took what she learned from her tireless efforts to heal her most debilitating heartbreak & find the love of her life, and turned it into a simple process that now helps women stop wanting Mr./Ms. Wrong back, and find someone better!
She was dubbed the resident Heartbreak Coach for Kourtney Kardashian’s lifestyle site, POOSH, where she has written over 60 articles on heartbreak, dating and relationships. Other publications she's written for include Men’s Health, Brit + Co, & Medium. Claire was also featured in Ireland's national newspaper, The Irish Independent, Daily Mail UK, and Cosmopolitan UK.
Claire has also been a recurring guest on Bachelor Nation/DWTS winner, Kaitlyn Bristowe's Off The Vine podcast, as well as guested on Drybar Founder Alli Webb's Raising the Bar, The Liz Moody Podcast, Arielle Lorre's The Blond Files, and Bachelor Nation's Ashley Haibon's I Don't Get It. She was also interviewed by The View's Sara Haines on her IG live series.
Finally, you can check out Claire's own podcast, Stop Wanting Him Back & Find Someone Better on all major platforms.
What do my clients say about finding love?
"Claire's coaching provided me with two essential pieces that led to my Mr. Right. First, she gave me a clear dating process that stopped me from looking at what WASN’T working with men or the apps. Second, she held up the mirror to show me some ugly truths I didn’t want to see including all the crumbs I was settling for. It took a lot of consistency on my part and tough love on Claire’s part, to help me finally break my scarcity mindset with men. Now, I’ve met a man who is everything I want and more. Two years later and I’m madly in love and deeply proud of my own growth! I’ve loved loved loved working with Claire — it’s changed my life."
-Alicia
"Through working with Claire, I managed to fix a broken heart I thought I would NEVER heal AND...FIND THE MAN OF MY DREAMS! Her huge heart, empathy, and yes, some tough love I was receptive to, helped me realize I owed it to MYSELF to do better. Claire is compassionate, challenges you, and most importantly, teaches you how to love yourself.
Coaching isn’t easy, but a chance to work with Claire is truly a gift and even though it's hard, we have some great laughs too! The woman I’ve become since our work together, is one I can finally say I am proud of. I learned how to know what I deserve in my BONES, and now have a new-found confidence & independence that helped me make those hard but clear choices, as I navigated my finding-love journey under her guidance.
And I'm now just in awe of my whole life--(she also coached me on my career AND my relationship with money because it's ALL interconnected) and still pinch myself over my FIANCÉ who is like no other man I've dated before, and am now confidently planning my future with. The work was for sure hard at times, but so so worth it!"
-Emily R
"Claire is THE expert on heartbreak, and I firmly believe there is no one better. Anyone who's heartbroken or is needing help manifesting her ideal relationship, look no further. Despite some tough moments I had coming to grips with a true awareness of myself, I always knew I was in the right hands with Claire.
Claire's coaching is priceless. She’s tough, but HILARIOUS, and helped me fall more in love with myself, which in turn, helped me find the best and healthiest relationship I have ever been in.
My results—including my HUSBAND, speak for themselves!"
-April G.
"My only hesitation about working with Claire was that I wondered if I could afford it, but then I asked myself, how can I afford NOT to do this? How much longer do I want to stay stuck, after 40 years of pretty much doing the same thing and never fully figuring out how to get out of my own way?
I then DECIDED I'd give anything to learn something different that WORKS.
So I decided to take the leap!
I had huge shifts and found so much value working with Claire-- specifically surrounding my unavailability to myself, which is why I'd been attracting unavailable men for YEARS, but I FOUND THE LOVE OF MY LIFE AFTER I HEALED MY HEART WITH BOTH OF HER PROCESSES!!!
I found this work while in the depths of despair in my heartbreak, and never could have imagined not just my love-life, but my whole life being this amazing, now at 42. "
-Katie J
READY TO FIND HIM?
Apply for The Find-Him Formula: Accelerated 1:1 Coaching Experience
12x 1:1 sessions with Claire to be completed over 16 weeks. Payment plan available.
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